Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Children's early development tips, to all night raves...

Learning basic literacy skills begins at birth. Learning to read and write begins also at a very
young age. Children need every day loving interactions—sharing books, telling stories, singing songs, and talking to one another. Turn taking in conversation is an important aspect to a child's English language development, this teaches the child basic courtesy when speaking to another person.

From what I have been told by my mother, I did not have any problems learning to speak. My Mum still speaks of the days when dad would get up in the middle of the night and pace the floor with me until I fell back to sleep (this was a common occurrence as I had asthma as a child and was unable to sleep through the night for the first 4 years of my life). Dad had the patients of a saint, especially as he was adjusting to being a father again as the age of 50. Dad held me in his arms and mouthed the word 'hello' to me over and over as slowly as possible, eventually my first word popped out ‘heelllooo’. Dad had broken through barriers and finally got something, other than screaming to come from his bundle of joy?!

The following are some crucial tips for encouraging your child's language development age 0-5 years:

-Talk to your child. The more you speak to your child, the more they will learn. I know this one sounds terribly obvious however; you would be surprised at how many parents do not see the point in speaking to their child, before their child is able to speak. The ‘gooing’ and ‘garing’ a child makes at this young age, is the child learning turn taking and experimenting with forming words. Always encourage this ‘gooing’ and reply with a sentence that sounds somewhat similar to what your child maybe trying to communicate.

-Explore toys and different objects with your child; allowing them to explore textures and shapes, this enables to child to see ‘how things work’. Use every opportunity as a teaching opportunity.

-Following your child’s lead when playing or sharing a book will breed confidence in your child.

-Once your child has mastered a game or activity, progress them onto something more difficult. Always challenge your child moving. Remember to go at a steady pace which the child themselves sets, this will avoid advancing too quickly and potentially destroying the confidence you have built in your child.

-My fifth point is one I personally feel passionate about; do not allow your child to watch too much television. Research does show that watching too much television can stunt a child’s brain development.  

If you raising a bilingual child and are looking for some tips and advice then, please allow me to guide you to this website: http://bilingualmonkeys.com/  The creator and author of this site is a Japanese father of two bilingual children. The site is passionately and beautifully written and is definitely worth researching. Try signing up for the newsletter; which provides tips, motivation and encouragement to keep you and your child on the path to bilingual success.



The first four years of a child’s life are crucial. Experiences a mother has whilst pregnant, can have a effect on a child’s development and personality as an adult. Research shows: Mothers experiencing excessive stress whilst pregnant can have a worse effect on the child then using un-prescribed drugs or smoking cigarettes. Stress during the early stages of a child development has in some cases, been proved to actually change the genes of a child, making them more susceptible to addiction and depression. 

This research into the effects of stress on a child can also be evident in adulthood. Adults, who experience extreme stress and/or abuse, can have the same genetic mutation. Thus, the experiences you have can change who you are, and the ways in which you react in certain circumstances. 

Consequently, my advice to parents bringing their first child into the world would be to remain as calm as possible during pregnancy, be aware of your child’s development, ensure they are always challenged and build as much confidence in your child’s abilities as possible. Your child will always look up to you, so make sure you are acting a role model, and your bouncing bundles of joys will be informing you, with perfect language skills, that they will ‘going to an all-night rave’ in no time!
Good Luck parents!

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